H - Hankering and Lamentation
A - Attention to Action
B - Be-aware of good and bad
I - Incremental Improvement
T - Transformation
Dictionary definition of HABIT: Practice that is hard to give up / Mental attitude which is developed by repeated actions.
Mechanism of Habit
Habits are like software which is deeply affected by programming system of the programmer.
● Software = Habits (Deep rooted)
● Programming System = Actions (Feeding medium)
● Programmer = Mind (Source)
Hence, HABIT = THOUGHTS + ACTIONS
Spiritual Perspective of Habits
Analogy from Bhagavad-Gita (Chapter 3 , Verse 38) , usually habits have three different coverings:
◆Stage 1 : Mirror is covered by dust
◆Stage 2 : Fire is covered by smoke
◆Stage 3 : Embryo is covered by womb
Similarly, here in this material world, unconditioned soul is covered by different degrees of lust.
Some Do’s to develop/maintain good habits
It is declared in the Srimad-Bhagavatam that, to develop/maintain good habits, these four pillars are most important,
1. MERCY: Civilized behavior is to survive with minimum possible pain to others.
2. AUSTERITY: It is avoided to engage in sense gratification and more focused on spiritual advancement.
3. CLEANLINESS: One has to be very clean and hygienic externally as well as internally and thus, one is active and enthusiastic.
4. TRUTHFULLNESS: It means that facts should be present as they are, for the benefit of others.
De-Addiction formulas
* Once you get into a bad habits, it is difficult to get out. Better not to get into it in the first place.
* Don’t put COMMA to bad habits, put a FULLSTOP.
* Habits don’t change until we consciously change them.
* Only the power of God can give us the power to overcome our addictions.
* The addictions of this world literally give us a “kick”. Once we comprehend this, this is a chance for us to stop ourselves from being kicked again and again.
* Compulsive dependency on any gratification outside yourself to satisfy you is an addiction
Some FAQ’s
1) What makes Habits so Addictive?
Pleasure experience of the past.
2) Does Habits affects ones destiny?
Yes, since habits are the root destiny is the fruit.
3) Why there is a guilt after doing bad habits?
It is a natural defence system which is warning us that, this process/activity is un-natural.
4) How to avoid Bad Habits?
By following Do’s and Don’t’s.
5) Even though someone knows what is right and what is wrong, one would still do wrong things.Why there is so
Because, contemplation of lower pleasure.
(Tip : Only by means of HIGHER TASTE we can conquer LOWER TASTE)
6) Why Bad Habits are disastrous?
Because, it only fuels Hankering part.
7) How to develop good habits?
Moving from gross pleasure to subtle pleasure to spiritual pleasure.
(Moving higher on the scale of consciousness)
8) How habits are influenced?
Habits are mainly influenced by three modes of material nature
ACTIVITIES | GOODNESS | PASSION | IGNORANCE |
BOOKS | Motivational Biography, Spiritual Books | Thriller Novels, Fiction stories | Objectionable websites |
TIME OF THE DAY | 4AM till Noon | Noon till 8PM | 8PM till 4AM |
MUSIC | Classical, Soft Music | Jazz Rock and Pop | Shouting, Screaming |
PLACES | Park , Forest | Crazy city life | Pubs, Night club |
FOOD | Wholesome, Juicy, Pure Vegetarian Sanctified food | Spicy Sour Hot Pungent | Untouchable, Rotten, Decaying |
STATE OF MIND | Happiness & Knowledge | Agitated, Greedy | Lazy, Dull, very reluctant to make spiritual advancement |
WORK | Teaching, Sharing Wisdom | Money is Honey, Whatever gives money | Alcoholic, Drug Addicts |
FOR MORE INFORMATION READ BHAGAVAD-GITA AS IT IS
- JEEVAN SHETTY A J